Personal Style & Personal Autonomy
I was on good old Google searching about personal autonomy when I saw this definition: Freedom from external control or influence - one is free to follow one’s heart.
In case you weren't sure before now, or if you're new here this is almost exactly how I would describe my niche within personal style, and how I specialize in helping you create yours.
This is exactly what I do, I give you the tools to completely take control of and feel confident and free to follow your heart in creating a personal style that is true to you without sacrificing or compromising who you are.
I love this way of describing it because it really highlights just how freeing it is, while also being incredibly connected to who you really are (one of my favourite things to help you create).
So, today I am sharing some of my absolute favourite benefits and effects of having Personal Autonomy when it comes to Personal Style, as well as how personal style coaching helps you achieve both:
1. The first benefit that was already mentioned is that it is freeing:
When you connect back to yourself and release external control or influence so many doors and options can appear because you are no longer limited by outside expectations or internalized beliefs. You are able to explore new ideas, and are able to express who you are in a meaningful way because you are responsible for you and you are the only one that can create limitation in your life.
2. The second is connection / self discovery:
The connection you create within yourself when you choose to make decisions from within is unmatched. It leads to incredible self discovery that allows you to expand and enhance your life in the most meaningful and fulfilling ways.
3. Confidence / Trust (intuition) = no second guessing
Because you are connecting to yourself on a deeper level and getting to know your true desires, and the person you really are, you start to build trust within yourself, and you start valuing your own opinions more. Through this deeper connection you can also hear your intuition more clearly.
THIS BUILDS CONFIDENCE, which means no second guessing when it comes to the woman you want to be and the clothes she wears. It means you have an inner knowing that you know speaks true when you make decisions and take action in your life and style.
4. Purpose / Meaningful expression (Service in your community)
Because you are secure in your connection with yourself, feeling free to fully be yourself, and building confidence from doing so, you start to show up as a complete you, that doesn't need others to validate who they are or the decisions they make.
Because you are not worried about those things and they are not taking up valuable brain and time space, you can contribute to relationships (those you love) and your community in a way that doesn't drain you, which takes simple interactions from helpful to fulfilling, energizing, and transformative.
5. Defined Personal Style / Closet full of clothes you love and wear
Saved the best for last ;)!
If you need one reason to consider coaching and learning how to have more personal autonomy let it be your closet. If you look inside your closet and cannot see yourself, you just feel confused or lost, this is your sign that personal style coaching is for you.
Personal autonomy helps you discover, and maybe for the first time completely define and embody your personal style. No more worrying about whether you can pull something off, whether something looks good or not, or if you have anything to wear.
Your clothes get to be a freeing experience and an expression of your heart.
The truth is, no one actually controls what you can and cannot wear except for you. No one has actually made an official ruling on the correct way to look or dress, only you can decide those things for yourself.
When you take back your power and act on creating your personal style from a place of love, trust, and connection with who you really are, not only will personal style (shopping, getting dressed, etc) feel freeing, but it will also amplify and attract the life you really desire.
Love & Trust Yourself